Be the reason someone asks you, “why?”

Be the reason someone asks you, “why?”

By Scott Hilgendorff / Cowboys of the Cross

Be the reason someone asks you why.

Not, why would you get on the back of a bull or why you’d risk your thumb roping.

But… Why did you pay that guy’s fees when you know you aren’t going to see the money again?

Why did you help that guy change a tire when you were already late for the rodeo? Why did quit drinking? Why did you just now decide to apologize for your part in that fight we got into last year?

Let your faith in Jesus change you so much that people start noticing it and asking why. And then, most importantly, be ready to explain it with your own clear understanding of the gospel: God’s plan for salvation that changed you.

2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!

We know we aren’t going to be perfect the moment we have a saving faith in Jesus but God sees us as perfect anyway. When we have a saving faith in Jesus, that means the Holy Spirit is now at home in us and through that, we are now something new. Through the Holy Spirit, or sometimes we refer to Christ being in us as Paul says here, we begin a process known as sanctification; becoming more like Jesus every day. Whether we experience big changes all at once or little ones along the way, it can be different for each but proof to ourselves of our salvation is that we are different than we were before. When our saving faith is real, we are not left the same as we were.

Those changes are what people begin to notice and they may start asking different questions like why don’t we go to the bar with them anymore.

Sometimes our friends might feel like the changes we make mean we suddenly think we’re better than them or that we’re judging them when we start living differently from them. Sometimes they might see such a positive shift in our attitude that they want to know why or what happened.

Whether they approach us out of a negative or positive reaction, we need to be ready to explain it to them.

1 Peter 3:15 but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect,

The hope Peter is referring to is our understanding that a perfect eternity is waiting for us in Heaven no matter how hard life here can get. He wants us to be ready to explain it to others who see we look at life differently now as Christians. This is a major way that others can come to a saving faith in Jesus through us.

If you identify yourself as a Christian but nothing about how your life is changing, let me ask you the hard question: why isn’t it?

Then let us offer to help you dig deeper into your faith and find a closer, changing relationship with Jesus.

Community of church just part of why we attend

Community of church just part of why we attend

By Daryl Skeeter Spaulding / Cowboys for Christ

Have you ever met someone who always finds fault in a church fellowship?

A great Baptist preacher I knew had a wonderful statement he said all the time, “Every time you point a finger at someone, you have three pointing right back at yourself”. How true that is! There are some folks who are never happy for very long in one place. We all have an expectation of what a church should be like in our own minds, but we as Americans are used to having things our way.

Attending church is so important to our spiritual growth, but it’s not a place to just park our carcasses down and expect to be served. We should go to be “a part” of something. “a part” does not mean idle. It’s good for all of us not to think too much of ourselves,” get out of our box” as the saying goes.

I have great memories being in Brazil for a summer mission trip. We worked in somewhat of a remote area constructing a building for a youth camp. The kitchen crew worked under a lean-to and each day they boiled large pots of water at a roll for 20 minutes for drinking and cooking for the following day. Our team traveled each Sunday to a different church to sing and talk about the work we were doing as part of the service. I’ll never forget seeing poor people travel by a small boat down river just to get to church. At other places they walked to get to church. And you can forget the fancy wood pews.

Maybe, you yourself have served on a mission trip here or abroad. Worked in a food pantry preparing boxes to give to those in need in your community or collected items for Samaritan Purse Christmas shoe boxes. At the “Brand of The Cross”, the cowboy fellowship where my wife and I attend, we collect items for those shoe boxes all year long for a packing party along with a chili cookoff competition. The whole fellowship gets involved; it’s a lot of fun.

Jesus was the perfect model for us when it comes to serving others. He washed the disciple’s feet just before His arrest. He needed to show them how to serve each other.

We find in the gospel of John 13:12-16. After washing their feet, he put on his robe again and sat down and asked, “Do you understand what I was doing? You call me Teacher and Lord; and you are right, because that’s what I am. And since I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash each other’s feet. I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you.

When you and I serve others, it takes the focus off ourselves. It’s a great remedy to becoming a nitpicker. God bless you as you go serve!

Mercy is much more than a cop letting you off with a warning

Mercy is much more than a cop letting you off with a warning

By Scott Hilgendorff / Cowboys of the Cross Racing to get to a rodeo or stock sale on time, some of us have experienced mercy at the hands of a law enforcement officer who chose to let us off with a warning.

Mercy from God is not receiving a punishment we deserve. Be sending Jesus to die for our sins and take the punishment we deserve, God shows us His greatest of mercies.

James 2: 12-13 Speak and act as those who are going to be judged by the law that gives freedom, 13 because judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment.

When James tells us to live like we are being judged by the law that gives freedom, he is talking about the gospel and God’s mercy and grace given to those of us who believe. We repent of our sin with the understanding Jesus died to take the punishment our sins deserve so that if we believe in his life, death and resurrection and ask to be forgiven, we are able to have an eternity in Heaven. God no longer judges us for our sin. That is true freedom, far greater than a cop overlooking a speeding fine and the fact we aren’t wearing a seat belt. We can breathe a sigh of relief that our efforts to get to the rodeo haven’t cost us a couple hundred dollars but true freedom comes in knowing God will receive us into Heaven no matter what mistakes we’ve made because of our saving faith in Jesus.

But if we’ve been shown that kind of mercy, how can we not extend mercy to others instead of our own personal judgments?

Because of the previous verses in James, there’s an emphasis on how the poor are treated and the need for them to receive mercy from Christians, not judgment.

This still extends to all aspects of our life and James is encouraging us to be sure that we show mercy to everyone, all the time. That’s tough to do and why God, who can show endless grace and mercy, will still extend it to us.

We know that even if we mess up pretty bad after we’ve come to a saving faith in Jesus, God will still welcome us into Heaven through His grace. James warns us that even as Christians welcomed to Heaven, there are still consequences from God for us acting without mercy to others.

Mercy triumphs over judgment.

What we show others, we should expect to be shown to us.

Would you rather sit in judgment of someone you don’t think deserves to be helped or would you rather honor God, who saved you from an eternity in hell, by showing mercy to someone.

That can be through forgiving a friend or family member who wronged you, helping pay someone’s entry fees who you would rather judge for blowing all his money at the bar the night before or giving money to the man begging at the intersection while the light is red and you’re late now anyway because the cop pulled you over.

Cowboys of the Cross is a rodeo/bull riding ministry that leads cowboy church services at events and maintains an online presence to share the gospel and make disciples among the ranch and rodeo community. They can be found at CowboysOfTheCross.com

How a cowboy lives out his faith now is the same as it would have been 2,000 years ago

How a cowboy lives out his faith now is the same as it would have been 2,000 years ago

By Scott HIlgendorff / Cowboys of the Cross

Ever said something in anger or frustration that you regret at home or to someone you work with after a day where everything went wrong trying to get the branding done or after the fourth weekend of not making a check at the rodeo?

We all know cowboys, or at least of them, who have died in the arena and left a wife and children behind. After the initial fund raising efforts to help with medical costs or funeral expenses, how long after have we moved on with our lives and forgotten those families. If they never have a reason to be at a rodeo again, they quickly fall “out of sight, out of mind.”

And there aren’t many of us that haven’t been tempted by the party lifestyle that surrounds the rodeo industry.

James has already taught us the importance of doing what scripture tell us to and now he’s giving us three specific examples of what we should do if our religion, our Christian faith, is real.

James 1: 26-27 Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless. 27 Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.

We hold our tongues.

We help widows and orphans.

We keep ourselves morally pure.

This isn’t a comprehensive list of what it takes to live out our faith but these are very specific examples from almost 2,000 years ago that James is pulling from the culture at that time. These were issues facing Christians then.

Isn’t it amazing how relevant the Bible is because these are still ways for us to live out our faith today?

And while these are just some of examples what Jesus and the Bible teach or show us are ways to live out our saving faith in Jesus Christ, they aren’t easy. Especially if you look at widows and orphans as representing the people who are most vulnerable or most in need in our culture.

A widow at that time was likely to be poor but in our lives around us, some of us right now are struggling with poverty or are one missed truck payment or a bad hay season away from bankruptcy as we are already hanging on by a thread. We know people whose lives have taken such a bad turn that they have taken their own lives. We have sex trafficking, addictions and mental illnesses that affect people sometimes at arm’s length from us and sometimes in our own homes.

It can overwhelm us if we feel the need or pressure to save every vulnerable person we know while keeping a tight watch that every word we speak is for good and every action we take is morally right. Praise God that He is in control, that we have grace for when we fail to meet these standards but most importantly, that our religion, our faith, is real enough that we have the desire to at least try.

We need to take God’s word seriously and act on it

We need to take God’s word seriously and act on it

By Scott Hilgendorff / Cowboys of the Cross

There’s an expression about taking a good look at yourself in the mirror. It’s usually said angrily and means the person being yelled at has done something wrong, often hypocritically, but doesn’t seem to get it.

James tells us something just as direct about looking at ourselves in the mirror but with a different point about our faith.

James 1: 22-25 Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. 23 Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror 24 and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. 25 But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do.

James wants us to take God’s word seriously and uses the example of us looking at our own reflection and then forgetting what we look to tell us how foolish it is to learn from God’s word and then do nothing about it.

In rodeo, this would be like a judge reading the rule book and then ignoring everything in it as he worked the rodeo.

Or a bronc rider being shown how to set his saddle but forgetting he needed a screwdriver and not being able to figure out how to adjust the stirrups after getting his new saddle.

James is stressing the importance of not just reading and learning about what’s in the Bible but acting on it.

What good does it do to know what Jesus wants of us if we don’t act on it? Most importantly, we can’t benefit from the Gospel if we don’t take action on it. Jesus and Paul, through scripture, tell us how to have eternal life, but it takes believing in who Jesus was and is, repenting and asking to be forgiven of our sin. All of these things are actions in response to what we learn from scripture.

But once we’ve embraced a saving faith in Jesus, when our salvation is real, we have a desire to follow Jesus and live out what the Bible teaches us.

James uses an exaggerated example of forgetting what we look like immediately after walking away from our reflection in a mirror as an example of how foolish it is for us to believe the Bible is real and do nothing with it.

When Jesus commands us in Matthew to love others, he wants us to do that. When Jesus shows us how to pray to God through what we know as “The Lord’s Prayer,” he expects us to pray to God. James is stressing to us the need to actively pursue following what God’s word tells us in the Bible.

He also reminds us how perfect that word is, another reason that it would be crazy not to follow it and do it what it instructs.

It certainly isn’t easy to live it all out perfectly but whether you’re a rodeo cowboy or a traditional cowboy on a ranch, who better to take action on the hard stuff than you?

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