Discouraged? Here’s where you find hope

Discouraged? Here’s where you find hope

By Scott Hilgendorff / Cowboys of the Cross

How much do we really think about just how deep God’s love for us is?

Those aren’t the thoughts of a typical cowboy.

At the rodeo, we face pressure to win or we don’t have entry fees for the next few weeks, we get our thumb taken off and miss the calf roping win, our truck breaks down, we get discouraged

At the ranch, political issues crop up that affect how we use our land, prices sometimes dive before our cattle get to market, a storm blows through and an extra week of work piles up making repairs to broken fences and barns. It gets discouraging.

Don’t worry, God’s in control.

I’ve heard that so many times and yet, I still worry. There are times it makes me think I haven’t matured as a Christian nearly as much as I had hoped when I can’t seem to give my stress and worry over to God.

First, we have to remember as Christians, we have a perfect eternity waiting. As bad as our situation is right now, it actually can be worse. It is hard for us to grasp just how short our time here is and when we are struggling and even suffering, it gets even harder to see that.

But we are loved by God so much that He sent Jesus to die a painful death to take all punishment meant for our sin that if we believe in him, repent of our sin and ask to be forgiven, we are given a perfect eternity it Heaven.

Romans 5:8 But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us

The troubles we face are because this is a sinful broken world. We are born into this world as sinners separated from God because He won’t allow sin in His presence and will judge and condemn it. But despite deserving God’s punishment as we live sinfully, He still sent Jesus to die and take the punishment in our place.

When we receive that gift of salvation through our saving faith in Jesus, it doesn’t mean our struggles end but there are two things it does mean: a perfect eternity awaits us free of struggle and whatever we are going through, God will use it for good.

Romans 8:28 And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.

Sometimes with hindsight, we can see how God used a struggle to build us up or even to save us from an even bigger struggle. But sometimes, we don’t always get to see the direct outcome of God’s plan. It’s one of those places where we need faith when that happens and hope in our perfect eternity, free from struggles. It doesn’t mean it isn’t hard but our strength to endure comes from God and the hope He gave us through Jesus is what can get us through anything.

Why everything we do needs the same effort put into rodeo

Why everything we do needs the same effort put into rodeo

By Scott Hilgendorff / Cowboys of the Cross

Not everything we do here leads to a winning moment or a paycheck but we’re still supposed to put our heart into everything and do the best that we can do.

At a rodeo recently, I watched a bull rider give everything he had, not just to get bucked off but to be spun into a cartwheel in the air before a hard landing. Thankfully, he was unhurt beyond the normal aches, pains and sprains a dismount like that will cause.

Many people make a career in rodeo and when you compete at that level, you have absolutely no choice but to put your best effort in. If you don’t and you compete on the rough stock side of the industry, you’re guaranteed to buck off, put yourself and others in harms way and waste your entry fees. On the timed event side, you’ve invested time and money in training and working a horse to compete alongside you and you aren’t going to shortchange yourself by putting a half-hearted barrel run together or an aimless toss of your rope. You’re going to push for the fastest time you and your horse and can achieve.

Colossians 3:23-24 Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.

From a Christian perspective, when we focus on just the rodeo example, we are competing for more than a paycheck. Yes we have to work hard to win, but our motivation should be to do our best because it is Him that we are representing. Paul is telling us that God wants us to work with best effort because we serve Him with an awareness that He has given us a perfect eternity in Heaven through our saving faith in Jesus.

When people know we take the Bible seriously and we don’t live our lives just for our own success, we can glorify God through doing our best. When they see and understand that it is our faith that motivates us, the attention is put on God and not our success or even our failures.

Parents will tell us it’s okay when we failed at something because we tried our best. God is glorified even if we fail when He knows we put our all into it and set that example for others.

How well we handle a win or loss can really show others how Jesus is at work transforming us.

Rodeo is just one example though. This applied to how we work any job we have even if we have the worst boss imaginable. God still expects us to put our best effort forward in every situation that involves work, from traditional employment to hobbies to helping a neighbor cut up a fallen tree.

No matter how much success we have from our efforts, when our hope is in Jesus, our real reward is a perfect eternity in Heaven.

Men don’t often hear a kind word but we need them more than we realize

Men don’t often hear a kind word but we need them more than we realize

By Scott Hilgendorff / Cowboys of the Cross

You have the ability to change the course of someone’s day or even life.

Men especially, think how often you’ve heard a compliment outside of a dating scenario (or even in a relationship). Sometimes criticism is necessary and we need to know how to receive it without getting upset, angry or defensive. But we take criticism so often at work, in relationships and from family. Sometimes it gets back to us from our extended social circles where someone out there has been criticizing or complaining about us. Sometimes it gets back to us that it was someone close to us.

It isn’t weak to admit that sometimes it’s hurtful or at the very best, discouraging. It certainly makes most of us angry and puts us in a defensive position. And the more we hear, the more it piles up and the more discouraged we can become.

More importantly, it also isn’t weak to admit that it actually feels good to hear something nice once in awhile.

It can mean even more when it comes from people out of our extended connections who we know aren’t just saying something because they’re a close friend that sees we’re frustrated or who suspect might have an agenda behind the compliment. When it comes from someone who really did observe an action we took, a way we spoke to someone or a situation we handled, it can carry more weight because we know it was sincere.

Think of someone in your extended circles and something you’ve seen them do or a way they handle themselves and text or message them right now: “hey man, I just want you to know I’ve noticed how great you are with –your daughter–how you handled that bad call by that rodeo judge–how you never seem to let that supervisor get to you– the way you always lend someone a hand.”

Look for the good in the people in your close circles and in your more distant ones.

Do not underestimate how much God can use you to lift that person out of a very bad head space you didn’t even know they were in. And don’t rob yourself of such an easy way to glorify God by following what this verse teaches us.

Ephesians 4:29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.

Paul is telling us to first make sure we aren’t speaking any junk to begin with whether it’s gossiping or running someone down behind their back or even two their face or just speaking with foul language. We should only be using words and language that would be God-honoring. We forget, He is listening.

Paul then reminds us that anything we say should be for the benefit of others and that when we do this, it can point people to God’s saving grace.

We need to exercise the rights we fight for, especially our faith

We need to exercise the rights we fight for, especially our faith

By Scott Hilgendorff / Cowboys of the Cross

Of course we should care about our rights and freedoms. But what good does it do when we have the freedom to tell people about Jesus and never exercise it?

Many announcers will say a version of this in their openings: “In our great country, we have the freedom of religion and we’re going to exercise that right by going to the Lord right now in prayer.”

That’s fantastic that prayer is an important part of most rodeo events in the country, but for a lot of Christians, that’s the beginning and the end of where we exercise that freedom.

We’ll be loud and proud oi we think someone is threatening our freedom of religion and sit silent or motionless when God gives us the opportunity to tell someone why we believe what we believe—something Jesus calls everyone to do in Matthew through what’s known as the Great Commission.

Rodeo creates a comfortable setting to practice praying in public or talking openly about God but we’ve got to get out of our comfort zone and take our faith everywhere we go. If we’re truly saved and Christ is in us, we can’t help but be driven to do that.

Matthew 5:14-16 You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.

Here in Matthew, Jesus is making it clear that we represent him to everyone and when our faith is real and we are living it out, people are going to see it the same way they can’t help but see a city that was built on a hill while traveling.

Even more though, Jesus is encouraging us to live out our lives as authentic believers so that others will see us living out those lives and point others toward God. While he doesn’t specifically say it points them to their need for a savior, that remains an important truth about living out our lives in a way that others see us different form them—they see our ‘light.’

We don’t live a Christ-like life to call attention to ourselves but to honor God.

Using the prayer example at a rodeo, an easy way for someone to get started and used to being out of their comfort zone is to pray before a meal when in a restaurant. It’s not that we never see that happen, but it can stretch some of us. If we’re comfortable with that part, before we pray, how about asking the server at your table how you can pray for them? That’s a real way to show Jesus to someone. Be open for ways we can be intentional about our faith when we’re our and our light will shine.

We need to be trustworthy, sharing false stories kills that

We need to be trustworthy, sharing false stories kills that

By Scott Hilgendorff / Cowboys of the Cross

The more we believe false information, especially across social media, the more we miss what is really going on and the more we miss a chance to reach others for Jesus.

This most often applies to major news-making issues like the election, or a mass shooting or other issues that we become divided on. It’s an actual fact that foreign governments have even employed people knowledgeable of our language and culture whose job it is to make fake memes and posts to fuel our conflicts with each other. Division makes us weaker. Other people fan the flames simply for the sport of it it, sitting back and watching controversial made up stories go viral and people freaking out about it or celebrating it if they think it represents a victory for them. Some of these posts come straight from satire sites that don’t even hide that what they wrote was only made to sound believable and yet we share it as truth anyway.

But Christians, this is where I need you to hear me. In the rodeo and western industries, the public sees us as standing up for “God and country.” People see us representing truth and freedom but they watch us and they see us post content they, themselves know not to be true and we lose all our credibility with them.

We need to be trustworthy people. We have just a few main jobs to do when our hope is in Jesus and our salvation is secure in a saving faith in him. First and foremost is to share the gospel and make disciples. Among others is loving everyone including our enemies while living a life that honors and glorifies God who made a way for us to be free of His judgment and punishment of our sins. When instead of sharing the gospel, we share information that isn’t true, we lose our credibility among the people who don’t know Jesus. They need to be able to believe us when we tell them of the consequences they’ll face for their unrepentant, unforgiven sin. Instead, they see us at best as gullible or at worst, intentionally dishonest. It’s easy to be fooled by the false content that’s out there and it’s getting even easier; especially when it’s something we are passionate about like many of us are about the election. Let’s make sure we find even more passion for our pursuit of Jesus, allowing our saving faith in him to be what motivates and changes us.

Ephesians 4:25-27 Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another. 26 Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, 27 and give no opportunity to the devil.

All of Chapter 4 is worth reading a few times to see some of what the Bible tells us should be showing up in our lives as we grow in our faith.

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