If you’ve ever worked with cows, horses or your family, you’ve probably experienced anger

If you’ve ever worked with cows, horses or your family, you’ve probably experienced anger

Anger is almost always a sin and it can come from our pride.By Josh McCarthy / Cowboys of the Cross

If you have ever worked with cows, horses, or family, I’m willing to guess you’ve let
your frustration show in various ways when things didn’t go exactly how you wanted them to.
Anger is one of those “acceptable” sins in our society. If we display it in moderation it’s fine; in
fact, our culture may even praise us for lashing out blindly at someone or something that dares to offend us. Let me specify here that when I say “anger,” I am talking about sinful anger, not
righteous anger. Examples of righteous anger are given in the Bible, such as God’s anger about sin. Sometimes we experience righteous anger about our own or our brother’s sin, but we need to take care to consider whether such anger stems from recognition of our own unrighteousness in the presence of a holy God, or simply our own wretched pride. Anger that originates in sinful motivations is still sinful, whether or not it appears to be justified on the surface.

Sinful anger is our “natural” anger. It’s what you feel when you think the judge made the
wrong call about you marking your bronc out. It’s what you feel when those cows want to keep
fighting you on which direction they should go. It’s what you feel toward that horse that won’t
keep his foot up so you can nail on that last shoe. It’s what you feel when your kid’s good-for-
nothing dog blows up the herd fifty feet from the corral gate, after you specifically TOLD him to
leave that disobedient so-and-so in the pickup.

I’m not saying that these things aren’t frustrating, but how we handle these problems tends to show us what’s going on in our hearts – which is the
heart of the issue.

Our hearts want to tell us we are the center of the world and I’d bet if you thought back to
times when you let your anger show or even just had those angry thoughts, you’d agree the
reason had something to do with things not going exactly how you had them in your head.
Another way to put it would be to say your pride put you in the place of God in that moment.

I’ve been there more than a few times. I’ve cussed out a bunch of cows that I was trying to
gather up because it didn’t go exactly my way – and did it go any better after that? Nope! Losing your cool while working with cows and horses usually just creates more work. But more
important than how your temper affects the animals – and people – you work with, is the fact
that you are allowing sin to have a stronghold in your life.

So how do we combat the sin of unrighteous anger? One of the primary adversaries in
this fight is our own pride. We need to realize that God is God and we are not. If we look to Scripture, Romans 9:20 for example, we are shown our place before our God. Seeing Him
correctly lets us see ourselves correctly, humbling ourselves before Him.  Romans 9:20 But who are you, O man, to answer back to God? Will what is molded say to its molder, “Why have you made me like this?”

As we walk with Christ, we are called to recognize His rule and reign over every part of
our lives, even as our sinful flesh seeks that honor for itself. Paul, in Galatians 5:16-26, tells us to walk by the Spirit and in so doing to suppress the desires of the flesh, such as fits of anger.

Keeping our anger in check not only helps in all aspects of our daily lives, it most importantly
honors the God who saved us. As Christians, this is what our whole lives should be focused on
anyways: His honor, not our own.

Galatians 5: 16-26  16 But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.17 For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do. 18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law. 19 Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, 20 idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, 21 envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. 22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. 24 And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.

25 If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit. 26 Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another.

Christmas Greetings from the Cowboys of the Cross family

Jesse Horton

Greetings from the Horton clan!

The past few months have been very eventful. While working full-time (and then some), I am also working through the latter part of my Master of Divinity degree via online classes with Moody Theological Seminary (Chicago). In addition, I completed a 6-month transitional interim pastorate at a small local church that is struggling with issues of identity and leadership. To say my plate has been full is an incredible understatement!

But through it all, God is working. He prepared me and equipped me in every circumstance for ministry opportunities, both locally and through Cowboys of the Cross. Then, just as my wife was diagnosed with uterine cancer and expecting surgery to address it, my class load dwindled to half the norm, my interim pastorate ended, and I’ve found myself with time to enjoy and care for my family. God’s sovereignty is clear in every circumstance of my life.

All of this, especially in this time of year, reminds me of the hundreds prophecies given to Israel through its prophets. Hundreds of years before the birth of Jesus, it was promised that Messiah would be born to a virgin, of the house of David, born in Bethlehem, exiled to Egypt, and all before the second temple period ended in 70 AD…and that’s only a handful of the specific things that were promised and fulfilled in Jesus.

Our God made promises to Israel, and he was faithful to keep those promises. Some of these promises, however, are yet to be fulfilled. We are told that Messiah’s governance would know no end, and that he would rule and reign over all the nations of the earth. Jesus promised that he would return to set up his kingdom, fulfilling those prophecies. Just as surely as we’ve seen hundreds of Old Testament prophecies fulfilled, we can trust the Jesus’ promise – and God’s yet unfulfilled promises about Messiah – will also be fulfilled.

What a blessed hope we have! Our King will reign, and his rule will know no end – a rule filled with justice, peace, and righteousness! That is the hope that makes enduring the drudgeries of life more bearable. I pray that you will cling to that hope with me this Christmas season and always! And if, by chance, you find yourself without that hope I’ve described, please contact us at Cowboys of the Cross to find out how you can begin your hope-filled relationship with God; do it now – don’t delay.

Grace & peace to you in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ!

Jesse & Sarah Horton & family

Jim Bull

Josh McCarthy 

Merry Christmas from the McCarthys!

This has been an exciting year of changes. One of the biggest was getting married this spring to my wife, Julia. She is my biggest supporter and meets the biblical definition of a helpmate. (One specific way she does this is by proofreading all my Cowboys of the Cross articles so y’all can’t tell how bad my grammar really is.)

Another change for me has been gaining a new appreciation for Psalm 50:10 through ranching and cowboying in Idaho’s Salmon River country: “For every
beast of the forest is mine, the cattle on a thousand hills.”

While it’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle this time of year, I pray we all take time to reflect on why we are celebrating. During this advent season, I am reminded of the faithfulness of God. Since the third chapter of the Bible, God has promised His people a Savior.

As I have heard it said, the entire Old Testament is like working cows in a set of well-designed corrals; each of God’s covenants narrowed the focus of His promise of a coming Messiah, much as the corral narrows as cattle move toward the chute. The ultimate focus of the covenants, like
this joyful season, is the Savior Jesus Christ. I hope that this Christmas, we can all remember God’s faithful love and grace for His people. Merry Christmas and as always, Soli Deo Gloria!

Scott Hilgendorff

The past several days on social media up until Christmas, I’ve been sharing some “favorite things”. It’s been a chance to share a little more on the personal side and reveal some more of who I am. I may post a lot of goofy content and share some personal anecdotes or thoughts and feelings but outside of teaching or trying to give you guys some devotions to learn from and offering opinions, hopefully with a Biblical slant, on issues we’re facing, I keep a lot of my life pretty quiet. I don’t like the spotlight despite being the one who most often gets to stand in front of some of you leading cowboy church at rodeos and bull ridings.

That’s because it isn’t supposed to be about me. It’s about Jesus, the Savior whose birth we celebrate and recognize through Christmas. Because of that, it becomes a difficult struggle finding ways to get your attention on social media, but using that, ultimately to direct you to the content we prepare to try to teach and disciple you and, most of all, point you to Jesus.

It also isn’t about the ‘things’ I’ve been calling attention to or the ‘things’ that are unwrapped after being displayed under our Christmas trees. Unnoticed by most, I slipped an important Bible verse into the first picture I shared of my Charlie Brown Christmas record and the reflections on the significance that played in my childhood. The verse was  Matthew 6:19-21 19 “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. 20 But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. 21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

It’s a simple caution to remember that what we have here is so temporary and what we should be focused on is Heaven, our eternal home, where we really belong. We celebrate the birth of Christ but we can’t focus on the ‘baby Jesus’. He grew up to be a man who died a horrific death, taking on the punishment of our sins so that with a saving faith in Jesus’ life, death and resurrection, with a repentant heart seeking forgiveness for our sins, we could be reconciled with God and ensured entry to our permanent home in Heaven.

We can get so focused on the ‘stuff’ that we forget, not the birth of Jesus, but its significance. That’s why in Matthew, we’re reminded that our hearts need to be focused heavenward.  What a glorious time we have in the Christmas celebrations, as we spend time with friends and family and give and receive gifts, to let ourselves be reminded to do just that, look heavenward and praise and thank God for sending His son. It’s a cliche to say it, but Jesus really is the reason for the season.

Love you guys and look forward to serving you more in 2019.

Success or failure, God will use it all

Success or failure, God will use it all

By Scott Hilgendorff / Cowboys of the Cross

My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. Psalm 73:26

It’s ok to fail.

You have goals you want to achieve. People in the rodeo and bull riding industry have unique sets of goals within the sport on top of the goals everyone sets for their lives. There’s a finals you want to qualify for, a time you want to beat, a bull you want to win a rematch with, a buckle you want to earn or a horse you’re training with goals for him.

When we don’t meet those goals, we can sometimes get frustrated or discouraged. It leads some people to quit. But if we look at our goals through a Biblical perspective, we don’t have to ever get discouraged, especially when we put God in front of them.

But here’s the kicker–that might change your goals completely. Once you look at how your choices can glorify and honor God or can carry out the Great Commission–that assignment God gave us all to share the gospel and teach and equip other believers–our goals or the reason for achieving them can easily be changed. That doesn’t mean you suddenly don’t try to qualify for a finals, but you find yourself putting God first in that journey.

Suddenly, the pressure is gone. You might even fail to achieve to accomplish what you set out to do, but the biggest accomplishment turns out to be how God used you in the process. Instead of being discouraged, you look back on the steps taken to achieve the goal, so the way that God was glorified in your choices and actions, and you find yourself feeling good about the experience.

Our failures can be God’s biggest success through how others can see Christ in us by how we handle a failure or how God uses our struggles with sin and temptation to help us. “My flesh and my heart may fail.”

Fail or succeed in our own minds, it’s His plan that will be carried out perfectly using us, His imperfect creation. Sometimes His plan is to let us fail to teach us and help us grow and sometimes that’s going to come out of us struggling with sin. As strong as we want to think we are, it can take real strength to admit how easily we let ourselves be tempted into sin…. That we weren’t strong enough on our own. We aren’t. That’s ok. Because God will be the strength we need to overcome what feels like a failure or a struggle with sin. And God’s grace will cover us when we mess it up. His love and grace is bigger than any sin or failure we feel we’ve experienced.

Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good

Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good

By Scott Hilgendorff / Cowboys of the Cross

Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good.
His love endures forever.’ Psalm 136:1

God’s love endures through all things and each of all 26 verses of this Psalm end with the words, “His love endures forever.” Each verse offers a reason the Psalmist is thankful, many of the reasons relating to all the lengths God went to in rescuing the Israelites from Egypt and taking them to the Promised Land. He also thanks God for everything He created.

Much like when families and friends go around the table describing what they are thankful for at Thanksgiving dinner or what gets shared in prayer before the meal, the Psalmist gives thanks for everything God has provided.

But in the Psalm, he reminds us of just how big God’s love for us is. It’s endless and will never stop. Never.

The Thanksgiving season is here and gives us an occasion to pay special attention to what God has provided for us but just as His love for us is always present, our thanks is always present when we realize what God did for us out of His love–sent Jesus to die on the cross for our sins. Out of that sacrifice comes a chance to repent of our sin and confess Jesus as Lord and Savior so that we can be forgiven our sins and made right before God. Without that forgiveness, that God freely offers those who ask for it, we face God’s judgement and punishment of our sin. His love is unending, but what God won’t tolerate is sin. It has to be judged, but in what is more than fair, God loves us enough that He sent Jesus to take the punishment for our sin. Through the realization of what he did for us and the salvation we can freely receive from that act of love simply through believing, repenting and asking to be saved, we become naturally thankful to God.

1Thessalonians 5:18 In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.

Paul reminds us in his letter to the Thessalonians that we need to give thanks for everything. Knowing that God’s plan is perfect, that even means finding a way to be thankful for what we don’t think is fair or good or right the way we measure it. It means being thankful for all that He has given us that we love and take joy in, but also realizing that if everything works out to the goodness God intends, our own struggles can be part of that and we can be thankful for those as well. A bad wreck coming around the third barrel, a roping horse coming up lame before the finals or a broken femur bucking off a bull can feel like huge setbacks, but what we can’t see in what God is doing through those setbacks can turn out to be some of the biggest blessings, especially when He uses them to change us and draw us closer to Him.

God’s love for us is unending. Our reasons to be thankful can be too.

An encouraging word strengthens a relationship

By Jim Bull / Cowboys of the Cross

Jim Bull is a horseman from Kentucky who writes, The Bull Pen for the Cowboys of the Cross website, devotions meant to teach and encourage through illustrations from life.

Jim Bull is a horseman from Kentucky who writes, The Bull Pen for the Cowboys of the Cross website, devotions meant to teach and encourage through illustrations from life.

I finally worked up the nerve to talk to my now wife, Laura, on September 22, 1999. Just over three months
later was New Years Eve and we, along with her roommate, were hosting an End of the Millennium
party. Some of the girls’ closest friends were there and I had come to know and respect them. During this
party, one of their friends pulled me to the side to tell me how happy she was for Laura and me; how
great we were for each other and how great I was to her.
I remember the feeling of the grin that spread across my face. The assurance, from a woman I barely
knew, was a great boost to my ego but, more importantly, made me want to do better. A little
encouragement goes a long way to building relationships, your own, as well as people you know or
encounter.
Hebrews 10:24-25 says “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good
deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another-
and all the more as you see the day approaching.”
My wife and I have been married for 16 years. In that time, we have had great moments of expressing
our love for each other. We have also had times of complacency, when we knew we loved each other
but failed to make the effort to show it unashamedly. I have had times when I felt I was a failure as a
husband because I knew my wife was feeling lonely and abandoned because I was wrapped up in work
and not putting forth the effort to show how much I needed her; how much I loved her. I have also felt
lonely, like a hired worker or a servant. It is in these times we were lacking communication and the
expression of our love, not that we were ever lacking the love itself.
Proverbs 31:28 says “Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her”
We are to tell our wives how blessed we are to have them. We should tell them all the wonderful things
we see in them; not just their outer beauty but inner beauty as well. We should tell them of the great
care they take of us, tell her you see her hard work and that you appreciate the effort she puts in daily
to take care of the family and household. Be sure to acknowledge her being a lady so she will continue
to be a lady.
After all this time together, after all the changes we have both made with our interests, habits and
looks, we are still blessed to have each other and work to acknowledge each our need for each
other. My advice to anyone in a relationship or looking for that special someone in the future is to not
be afraid of stepping outside your comfort zone when telling that person how you feel about
them. Also, we need to not be ashamed to tell friends that we see the way they are with their spouse or
girlfriend. Be supportive in the relationships of people you are around. You never know when you will
say something that they need to hear to motivate a fresh start to a stale relationship.
1 Peter 4:8 tells us “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers a multitude of sins.”

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